Victim versus s/hero (DW #873)
Feb 24, 2021
We have been discussing the differences between victims and "owners" or as I like to think of them s/heroes.
What is a quick way to move from victim to s/hero?
Quit complaining.
Quit complaining about things which are outside your control (which is most things!)
The problem with complaining is this: it takes much energy, it is always about others and not yourself (therefore there is nothing you can do about it – so very disempowering) and it may feel good in the moment.
When we complain, our brain may start thinking that we are actually doing something about it. After all, we are discussing it and bringing it into the forefront of our attention right?
Wrong. Nope. Nada.
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