It takes one
Have you heard the old adage, "it takes two to make a marriage work"? Most times we just accept this saying as true, thinking that unless both people work equally at a relationship, it is doomed to fail.
But here is the thing: if I asked you to fight with your spouse tonight, chances are that you can singlehandedly do that. All of us know which triggers and buttons to push to start a fight.
If we can singlehandedly start a fight or negatively impact our relationship, is it not possible that we can also singlehandedly turn it around for the better?
It may not be as easy as you'd like. After all, it is so much easier to wait for the other person to make the first move, isn't it?
Easy but not very effective! Waiting for the other person to change before we change is how many couples get stuck and distressed.
Relationships are a system of cause and effect. Once we change, the system itself changes.
So, why not make the first move?
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