Is it enough to ask forgiveness from God?(DW# 770 )
Jun 05, 2020
As we have been discussing, it is hard to acknowledge that we messed up, were wrong and have hurt someone.
Sometimes, even after we secretly recognize that what we did was not acceptable, we find it hard to acknowledge this in front of the person we have hurt. We may try to convince ourselves that it will be enough if we repent in front of God and ask for forgiveness.
After all, it is so much easier asking forgiveness from God, isn’t it? We do not have to confront any of the uncomfortable feelings that will surely surface if we are dealing with another (imperfect) human being who may or may not respond with graciousness and forgiveness.
But here is the thing: if we have wronged or hurt another human being, God will forgive only once we try to make amends with that person. And while our salvation may not depend on whether the other person forgives us, it will surely be impacted by the fact that we tried to make amends with them?
According to Islamic scholars, seeking pardon from others is a sign of bravery, courage, a high spiritual status and an expansive heart. In other words, unlike what we may feel, the ability to apologize to other human beings signifies a strength of character and also qualifies us for forgiveness from God.
It also ensures that our relationships remain strong and healthy and that smaller issues do not morph into big ones.
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