Recap: Taking small opportunities to grow love (DW#350)
Over the last few days, we have been talking about building love by taking advantage of the micro-moments of connectivity and positivity resonance.
So many of these OTLs (opportunities to practice love) seem so tiny that it is difficult to imagine how they could transform our relationships.
But think of it this way: a huge ship can change direction simply by moving the trim tab. The trim tab is a tiny thing at the edge of the rudder. It looks like a miniature rudder. Just moving this little trim tab builds a low pressure that pulls the rudder around. It takes almost no effort at all but can change the direction of the entire ship.
So think of these OTLs as having the power of the trim tab. Just as moving the trim tab can change the direction in which you are heading, adding these OTLs can transform the direction in which your relationship is heading.
Which of these are easy for you and which are the most challenging?
- Build the bank account by focusing on deposits rather than withdrawals
- Learn their love language
- Express appreciation
- Look in their eyes
- Practice the 6 second kiss
- Express physical affection
- Think loving thoughts
- Celebrate their good fortune
- Take a moment to say goodbye
- Be mindful of greetings
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